Here are 20 things your pastor wished you knew about him.
1. He knows and feels that ministry is a wonderful privilege (despite appearances which suggest otherwise, sometimes).
2. He is sometimes overwhelmed by a sense of failure in his ministry to you.
3. He’s not always sure if you know how much he loves and respects you.
4. He wishes you would open up to him more. He’s not a mind-reader, and he sometimes feels that you are content to keep him at arm’s length. Are you?
5. There are times when all he wants to hear from you is ‘thank you.’
6. He’s been sure that he should leave your church a few times already. He’s slogged through times of almost overwhelming darkness, as well as invitations to look at other churches. He’s stayed because he loves you.
7. He longs that you would say something (anything!) to him about the sermon on Sunday, or what you’re learning in the Bible.
8. He goes home from Sunday services thinking about you. Sometimes he even dreams about you. You are on his heart and mind far more than you realise.
9. He actually doesn’t care if you or anyone else in the church forgets him when he’s retired or gone to glory. As long as you’re safe in heaven, he’ll be more than happy.
10. He (mostly) loves preaching. He would hate you to think that it’s a burden to him.
11. He knows that no one in the church, not even his Elders, knows how difficult it is to preach, week in, week out.
12. Even when you’re at your most spiritually cold and fault-finding, he genuinely longs for a deepening spiritual friendship with you.
13. He puzzles over how much you think about your salary, but never think about how much your church salaries him.
14. He prays for you regularly. This is a heart, will and time commitment.
15. He needs your prayers and your encouragements. Pastors are in the devil’s firing-line.
16. Nothing thrills him more than finding out that you’ve been busy in gospel work, without advertising your work to others.
17. He loves being a part of the church family, as a regular member, as well as the pastor. He loves eating, laughing and sharing life with his Christian family.
18. He deeply respects your complicated,busy life. When he’s calling for commitment to the church, he’s not forgotten all that you’re already juggling.
19. He remembers your acts of kindness to him, probably long after you’ve forgotten them.
20. He loves Jesus. Even when he gets it wrong as he pastors you, he’s trying to work out his love for the Lord to you.
Pastor Anonymous is in full-time pastoral ministry somewhere in the UK!
This article was first published in the March 2014 issue of Evangelicals Now. For more news, artciles or reviews, subscribe to EN or contact us for more information.
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